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Jerry was the kind of guy you love to hate. He was always in a good mood
and always had something positive to say. When someone would ask him
how he was doing, he would reply, "If I were any better, I would be
twins!"
He was a unique manager because he had several
waiters who had followed him around from restaurant to restaurant. The
reason the waiters followed Jerry was because of his attitude. He was a
natural motivator. If an employee was having a bad day, Jerry was there
telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation.
Seeing
this style really made me curious, so one day I went up to Jerry and
asked him, "I don"t get it! You can"t be a positive person all of the
time. How do you do it?"
Jerry replied, "Each morning I wake
up and say to myself, "Jerry, you have two choices today. You can
choose to be in a good mood or you can choose to be in a bad mood." I
choose to be in a good mood. Each time something bad happens, I can
choose to be a victim or I can choose to learn from it. I choose to
learn from it. Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose
to accept their complaining or I can point out the positive side of
life. I choose the positive side of life."
"Yeah, right, it"s not that easy," I protested.
"Yes,
it is," Jerry said. "Life is all about choices. When you cut away all
the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to
situations. You choose how people will affect your mood. You choose to
be in a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line: It"s your choice how you
live life."
I reflected on what Jerry said. Soon
thereafter, I left the restaurant industry to start my own business. We
lost touch, but I often thought about him when I made a choice about
life instead of reacting to it.
Several years later, I heard
that Jerry did something you are never supposed to do in a restaurant
business: he left the back door open one morning and was held up at
gunpoint by three armed robbers. While trying to open the safe(保险柜), his
hand, shaking from nervousness, slipped off (忘记,遗漏)the combination
(开启号码锁的号码组合)。 The robbers panicked and shot him.
Luckily,
Jerry was found relatively quickly and rushed to the local trauma
(创伤,外伤)center. After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care,
Jerry was released from the hospital with fragments of the bullets still
in his body.
I saw Jerry about six months after the
accident. When I asked him how he was, he replied, "If I were any
better, I"d be twins. Wanna see my scars(伤疤)?" I declined to see his
wounds, but did ask him what had gone through his mind as the robbery
took place.
"The first thing that went through my mind was
that I should have locked the back door," Jerry replied. "Then, as I lay
on the floor, I remembered that I had two choices: I could choose to
live, or I could choose to die. I chose to live."
"Weren"t you scared? Did you lose consciousness?" I asked.
Jerry
continued, "The paramedics (护理人员)were great. They kept telling me I was
going to be fine. But when they wheeled me into the emergency room and I
saw the expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses, I got
really scared. In their eyes, I read, "He"s a dead man." "I knew I
needed to take action."
"What did you do?" I asked.
"Well, there was a big, burly (魁梧的,结实的)nurse shouting questions at me," said Jerry.
"She
asked if I was allergic (过敏的)to anything. "Yes," I replied. The doctors
and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply. I took a deep
breath and yelled, "Bullets!"
Over their laughter, I told them. "I am choosing to live. Operate on me as if I am alive, not dead."
Jerry
lived thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also because of his
amazing attitude. I learned from him that every day we have the choice
to live fully.
Attitude, after all, is everything.
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